Not Everyone Will Understand Your Journey

 

There was a time I tried so hard to explain myself.

Like many of you, I've experienced moments when I've tried to make others see what I saw, to feel what I felt, to understand why I chose a quieter path. A path of healing, of faith, of becoming. But I quickly learned that not everyone is meant to see your transformation up close. And that’s okay.

When I became a mother, some didn’t understand why I stepped back from specific roles.
When I moved to a new country, others couldn’t see the weight of starting over.
And when I chose to rest instead of hustle, I was questioned.

These were just a few instances where I had to defend my personal growth journey.
When I launched my faceless blog — a quiet space for women — some asked, “Why not show your face? Why not go bigger?”

But I’ve come to understand this: my becoming is not a performance.
It’s personal. It’s between me, God, and the gentle voice I follow within.

People may misunderstand your decisions — to pause, to protect your peace, to move on from old spaces, to start anew, to go slowly. But their misunderstanding does not diminish your truth.

Sometimes the ones closest to us can’t grasp our growth. Not because they don’t love us, but because they’re not equipped to walk where we’re called to go.

The truth is, you don’t need everyone’s permission to live a life that feels right for you.

You don’t have to explain why you’re healing.
You don’t owe anyone a storybook ending.
You’re allowed to quietly evolve — even when no one claps.

Your journey is not just worthy; it's significant, real, and deeply sacred.
Your growth is a testament to your strength and resilience.
And it's a journey that's uniquely yours — shaped by your faith, your silence, your bold small steps.

One day, those who truly matter will look back and say, “I didn’t understand it then… but I see it now.”
This understanding may not come immediately, but it will come, and it will validate your journey.

💭 Reflection Prompts

Who are you still trying to explain yourself to, and why?

What would it feel like to release the need for approval?

Where have you grown in silence, without applause?

What decision are you holding back from because you fear being misunderstood?

🕊️ Gentle Thought

Remember, personal growth is not a destination; it's a journey.
Just because others may not see your growth doesn’t mean you’re not growing.
Your journey is still beautiful, even if it’s misunderstood.
Keep moving forward. Keep growing.
And continue to embrace your unique path with quiet courage.