Her Quiet Becoming

  🌿 “Pain can echo across generations, but so can healing. Choosing to end the cycle is the quiet revolution that sets you—and those who follow—free. ” Growing up in a hostile environment can feel like being trapped in a script you didn’t write. You may hear the exact harsh words your parents once heard, carry the same unspoken fears, or find yourself drawn into the same unhealthy relationships. But recognizing these patterns is the first step to breaking free. It begins with awareness. Pause and ask yourself: “Where did I learn this behaviour? Is it really mine, or did I inherit it?” Naming the cycle takes away its hidden power. Once you see it clearly, you can begin to choose differently. Take Aisha’s story as an example. She grew up in a home where anger was the only language. For years, she repeated the same outbursts with friends and partners, believing it was normal. But when she realized she was carrying someone else’s pattern, she made a decision: This ends with me. She ...